Totally agree with this. If someone is driven by a real love of aviation, not just a love of a good job, there are many other options out there besides major/legacy flying.Amongst all this crap on here this is very good post. Lot's of very interesting, non airline jobs and resulting lifestyles out there. And plenty of Airline Pilots whose life is a train wreck. Nothing wrong with a good airline job and nothing wrong with plenty of other gigs out there. No doubt the best job is probably some cushy corporate job out there.
The worst are the pilots that think their airline is the best, everyone should be applying to their airline, etc. etc. Almost as bad is the wankers that, like you said, get wrapped up in "2% here vs. 2.3% there".
The happiest, most successful pilots out there enjoy flying airplanes to fund a nice life that doesn't have one's identity wrapped up in who they fly for.
The only caveat I would add however is that I've yet to hear about the non-121 flying gig that offers as much time off, and by that I mean time off that requires no thought whatsoever to anything related to the company you work for, or that doesn't require you to do a lot of non-flying BS in support of your position.
Of course, at the airlines there are the guys who create all of that BS for themselves by climbing ladders in the training dept or chief pilot's office or other management type thing. I'm glad there are folks who enjoy that since I don't. One of the major reasons I got into this was so I wouldn't have to sit in an office 40+ hours a week dealing with a boss. Even AirCobra admitted that he doesn't like the extra paperwork compared to an airline job..