Ok...back to that making no sense at all...
What does descent rate have to do with anything? Uh...nothing? Why would descending at no more than 500 fpm make a difference with flap speed?
Well, the answer is: nothing. But thanks for playing.
It's funny, I was right without ever even seeing your manual.
Ok, I'll explain it real simple. Each flap setting has a minimum manuevering speed. When you put the flaps down, you are well above that speed. If descending, limiting your descent rate will cause you to slow down more quickly. The slower you go, the less load on the flap mechanism.