This is a tough subject. The same "discussions" could apply if you are flying part 91 for someone that is also a pilot!
I frequently have "spats" with my boss when it comes to flying the airplane. He is an old pilot with 3500 hours. However, as you may know, sometimes the worst pilots have thousands of hours or have been doing it "that way' for 35 years!
I frequently have to walk a thin line when it comes to "telling him NO" and then doing it the right way. Yes, he is ultimitely the boss. However, I am the chief pilot, CFIMEII, etc. I am learning to find ways to "ask leading" questions, point out the obvious, etc., when it comes to getting him to understand the best way of doing things.
Like we used to say in the army, "Never violate doctrine - however, techniques are left up to the individual". As long as it doesn't violate doctrine, or sound safe measures I will always do what the boss says. However..............
As far as students are concerned:
1. Follow the FAR's
2. Use standard and accepted training techniques
3. Use a syllabus (this eliminates most uncoordinated effort)
4. A syllabus keeps training consistent also.
5. Remember that you, the CFI is ULTIMITELY responsible
6. Remember that the student is ultimitely the customer (not the boss)
The "student (boss as some call them)" can make decisions like training in the afternoon versus in the morning, which plane to rent, which CFI to use, which FBO to use, # of lessons per week, etc. However, they should not tell you which techniques they will train on, which lessons to skip, how to fly the plane, etc. Students don't have enough information or experience to make SOUND decisions - that's why they are students. Once they earn that coveted ticket - then the playing field is all theirs.
The lifesaver in all of the student/CFI problems that can come up is the CFI's ability to analyze the situation as well as be a good negotiator to get around the students that want to be bosses.
I have had "pre-first lesson" students come in and tell me vehimitely that they weren't going to "do this or do that, weren't going to follow a syllabus", etc. Well, I quickly dispatched them and took the rest of the day off. We do reserve the right to select our students. Actually, I do an interview with them to see if we can "agree to agree" on my methodology, etc. - just like they should be interviewing the CFI's.
It seems like they (students) must have gotten on a "forum" and learned from the "experts" that they don't have to do it if they don't want to because they are the BOSS.......................
