flyboysgal
from the gang at home
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2002
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- 53
whew!
Did I behave badly?
I want to let you know, it is not so much that you expressed the vent so boldly, but in a sad but true way, it sounded too much like how the beau took it!!
Hard to push so hard for something and have it collapse. Hard to second guess the system. Hard to work and want so hard and just end up where you started and REALLY tired.
In a teeny way, there may be some truth to some of what you implied. It is hard to imagine it all being such a wonderful place. From out here it doesn't even sound like work!
Once the bubble pops, there will be a real world under there. BEING there is not what makes the happiness. You are right, I did not know the situation and everyone has raw nerve ends. Like Canine said, hard being shot by your best girl!
BUT everyone has probationary periods. They come with the territory. Although they outlawed hazing, it is a rite of passage. Not like a deal where you tiptoe around in fear of having to payback your training costs for a year or two. Just a way of giving you a tighter look over until you earn their familiarity. HEY who said dysfunctional families are all that bad? Families is families. Just that all that smiling does look really nice from out here.
I am glad you are still flying. I am glad you are still trying. Sorry I got snappy too.
I am going to encourage him to keep whatever job he gets for a very long time, and IF things are good, then try SWA. It is so much easier to just want to improve the status than be down here where we are, dare I say a bit desperate.
I point out that HE is not crying, just grumbling and doubting. I am the one searching the boards fearing the next disappointment. Maybe if he sits down long enough, some day I will teach him to surf! HE can be doing this and I can watch tv!You missed my post about whether people make it to the third try! Many come back for the abuse ONE MORE TIME and did not regret it. Between now and then we have a lot of life yet to live.
stay up there....
Did I behave badly?
I want to let you know, it is not so much that you expressed the vent so boldly, but in a sad but true way, it sounded too much like how the beau took it!!
Hard to push so hard for something and have it collapse. Hard to second guess the system. Hard to work and want so hard and just end up where you started and REALLY tired.
In a teeny way, there may be some truth to some of what you implied. It is hard to imagine it all being such a wonderful place. From out here it doesn't even sound like work!
Once the bubble pops, there will be a real world under there. BEING there is not what makes the happiness. You are right, I did not know the situation and everyone has raw nerve ends. Like Canine said, hard being shot by your best girl!
BUT everyone has probationary periods. They come with the territory. Although they outlawed hazing, it is a rite of passage. Not like a deal where you tiptoe around in fear of having to payback your training costs for a year or two. Just a way of giving you a tighter look over until you earn their familiarity. HEY who said dysfunctional families are all that bad? Families is families. Just that all that smiling does look really nice from out here.
I am glad you are still flying. I am glad you are still trying. Sorry I got snappy too.
I am going to encourage him to keep whatever job he gets for a very long time, and IF things are good, then try SWA. It is so much easier to just want to improve the status than be down here where we are, dare I say a bit desperate.
I point out that HE is not crying, just grumbling and doubting. I am the one searching the boards fearing the next disappointment. Maybe if he sits down long enough, some day I will teach him to surf! HE can be doing this and I can watch tv!You missed my post about whether people make it to the third try! Many come back for the abuse ONE MORE TIME and did not regret it. Between now and then we have a lot of life yet to live.
stay up there....