If the runways are fairly long, is it EVER acceptable to simply land with complete disregard for the current wind conditions?
Of course. I do it all the time. Adequate runway, pick one, land. If the wind is strong, you'll already be aware of that. You can see trees, grass, water on a pond, blowing dust, the movement of shadows of clouds, the drift of your airplane, etc. If you can't tell from those things, there's not enough wind down there to worry about. If your in mountainous terrian, often landing uphill is preferable, even with a tailwind. Taking off downhill is often preferable even with a tailwind. Landing with the shorter taxi route may be preferable...you don't necessarily need to land into the wind. You may even wish to practice crosswind landings. Not a big deal.
There is also no known traffic in the pattern as requests for traffic to advise go unanswered.
Look for traffic with your eyes, not with your radio. No need to ask other traffic to report. You report, and if other traffic has something to say, they will. Never assume that other traffic reporting it's position is accurate; that could be a fatal assumption. Look. Your radio cannot spot traffic for you.
Likewise, when picking a landing runway, look. Are you feeling excessively fast on final, but your indicated airspeed is good? Perhaps it's just a high density altitude. Perhaps your airspeed indication is wrong. But perhaps you have a tailwind. You can always go around and try something else if you don't feel comfortable.
You are under no obligation to land directly into the wind, legally or otherwise. You choose what you feel is best. Wind is only one concern. You may elect to land downwind because the go-around path offers more options, whereas landing into the wind might place you in jeopardy in the event you have to go around or have a problem. It may be a one-way airstrip. In this case, you have several choices, it's your discretion. Make a choice and go with it.