Long story longer.
I once was trapped listening to Laura Schlesinger on a cross country road trip because it was the only radio station available. A caller calls in with an inpossible situation unlike the usual person who had be calling in and Dr Laura said, "all you can do is act with Dignity." I've found that one phrase to be the some of the best advise I've ever heard.
Arogancy took over this board long ago, and I'd say it is mostly from older legacy player when they took pot shots at LCCs. Instead of showing restraint and dignity, now that the tables have turned LCCs are firing back.
Back in the day (whenever that was) people used to say something to the effect that if you weren't working for UAL, you were working for something less and if you had to buy your typerating you were even lesser. For those of us who got our jobs since the heyday of the legacies, are greatful to fly for whoever. As a commuter guy I would've taken any of the top 10 and 5 others that weren't in the top 10 and been greatful for whoever it was and my loyalties would've run deep with whoever it was.
Think back to when you were interviewing, you would've taken a job with just about anyone and loved it. I would've.
If Deltablueguy had been hired by SWA and DL turned him down and LUVlover got hired by DL and snubbed by SWA their loyalties and beliefs would be 180 out. Being hired by SWA or DL or whatever doesn't make you a better person.
First of all, the dingnity displayed on this board reveals the type of person we truly are. When I see a post from a guy at XYZ flaming a guy at ABC, I think less of XYZ as a company. Why? that person is an ambassador of XYZ. And as a military member, (it's right there on the profile) I'm even less pleased when I see a military member not taking the higher road.
We all have frustrations in life, how we react to it reveals our character and dignity. Flaming someone on this board accomplishes nothing.