I'm not ward, but I do know a lot of dead folks with attitudes such as Patmacks'.
I recall many moons ago being given a little speech one evening by a wise individual regarding leadership. We talked about a certain person he'd known who didn't view leadership as lording over, but lording with. He was the one guy who set time aside to tutor, even the little things, from shoe shining to cleaning a weapon. That individual recognized that if he raised up everybody else around him, he raised himself up. Come time for pass and review, his unit received top honors. Seems everywhere he went, the same thing happened.
Those other twenty five bastards are on the same team. You have not to like it, only to do it. That should sound familiar.
Most pilots worth a **CENSORED****CENSORED****CENSORED****CENSORED** are bit arrogant. It's part of the job description.
No, it really isn't. Safely operates aircraft on mission/to destination. Makes sound judgement-based decisions regarding weather, fuel loading, takeoff and climb performance, payload, mission parameters, etc. Works toward mission goal as team member. Performs assigned tasks as required, yada, yada, yada. Don't ever recall seeing, "needs to be a bit arrogant," as part of any job description. Where did you see this description?
Me, politically correct? I'll call the cockpit whatever you want. Flight deck. Office. Cockpit. Forward seating area. Mental deconstruction zone. Whatever. If anything, I'm probably a little less than politically correct...and I don't post things here unless I mean it.
One thing I do not want on my team is an arrogant pilot...one who has some kind of mental chip on his shoulder about who is "best." I prefer adults, and I can't depend on some weakminded dingbat who is too worried about weather his fly zips tighter than the next guy, who obcesses with being the best vs. being a professional team member, and who can't stand up straight when he walks. If you do happen to swagger, perhaps it's better that you don't know that all you leave behind your back are snickers and smirks. Nobody is impressed but in the level of childishness that bravado brings. Check it when you move up to junior high.