I find it funny that so many are arguing over this now. There may be a fix in the process but it may get arbitrated. I, for one, am at peace right now because it is out of my hands. What I have that many here, on both sides don't, is faith. I have faith that this will work out and my life will continue. I have given this to God.
Now, I live in ATL and have unfortunately had to dodge commuting on AAI because some there have shown me the same level of immaturity as some of them have seen with our group. My commute sucks right now because I don't know what to expect if I show up at an Airtran gate. I will always be polite and keep the politics out of it. Come ride on my plane anytime and I'll make sure you are treated right. When I smile it's because I'm generally a happy person, not because I am smug. If I say welcome to the family, I mean it. Even if I am just non-revving, I always stop by the cockpit because I think they should know I am on board, not to gloat or confront. Just remember that when one of us shows up to beg for a ride don't blame us for this situation. It was not my idea.
Back to lurking, commuting and having faith.
I'm sorry that you have to worry about jumpseating on AT out of ATL. Whatever happens with this process the relationship between individual crews on jumpseats, at airports, on hotel vans, etc. should remain professional. As pilots we all have a lot more in common than we have differences. It's sad to see things come to this, I don't think it does any good for individual crews to be debating these issues with pilots from the other company or treating pilots (or any other employees at their own company or the other) differently because of this......what does it solve, how does it help the process? Can't we all act like adults, agree to disagree about some things, and let the negotiations happen at the table? Personally, I would be very disappointed with any co-worker who took out their frustration on an employee from the other company by being anything less than friendly and professional, that's just not helpful in any way.
This is a difficult situation and it's causing anxiety for everyone but we can't let that turn into hostility. This is going to get done one way or another and the ultimate success of the combined company will rest on the ability of all of us to put this behind us and work together in the future. These people are your future fellow employees, let's not forget that.