Bag of bones, please put your husband on here, and quit posting on his screen name, at least he has some nads, if you didn't geld him on your honeymoon.
Show some evidence where YOU own that airspace.
Put up or shut up!
You can't do it, can you?
A couple of airplane drivers that read "Soldiers of Fortunes" when you were in puberty think that they own the sky...guess again.
Now the balls in your court (except old baggy cause he ain't got none), prove your point! Show some documentation. Just because a couple of beered up O-3's say its a bad idea does not carry any weight.
I don't ever remember reading any military pilot say that MOAs were military only. Every post I read (and I might have missed it) from a military pilot acknowledged the fact that, although they are Military Operating Areas, VFR, non-participating aircraft are allowed in. Everyone of them has said, that it is their belief that flying VFR in an active MOA is irresponsible.
In the posts above, and on the AOPA website (if you are a member) there are many articles detailing the fight AOPA is waging against more MOAs. The question is why? Why would AOPA fight a MOA if it has no effect on GA? If AOPA thought that it safe to transit active MOAs while flying VFR, they would encourage it, and not care where the military put a MOA. But the fact is, AOPA knows that flying through an active MOA is dangerous and irresponsible (albeit legal), and they are worried that their membership of safety conscious, responsible pilots will have to avoid them, thus creating a hardship for GA in general.
Not one civilian only pilot has come on here, with the exception of Rez (again, I may have missed a post or two. If so, my apologies) and acknowledged that the civilian pilot should have used better judgement. They were quick to crucify the military pilot for his actions (which I think were correct, in theory, but executed less than optimally), but held up the Pilatus pilot as some sort of Che Guevara of the airways.
Most guys posting who were civilian then military (myself included) have said now that they have seen first-hand what goes on in a MOA, avoid active ones like the plague. Shouldn't that say something about a plan that takes a non-participating VFR aircraft through an active MOA?
Lastly, I did some quick flight planning to put it all in perspective. I'm guessing The Pilatus (N121PH) is based in Orange County, CA (KSNA). I looked at a flight plan from Deer Valley (north of Phoenix) to John Wayne Airport. VFR direct at 16500ft would transit the heart of the Luke MOAs. Total distance: 288 NM direct. 1+10 hours and 406 lbs. of fuel. Then I planned the same flight DVT-SNA IFR on Victor Airways at 16000ft. The route avoided all airspace. Total distance: 294 NM, 1+14 hours and 429 lbs. of fuel. The difference being 4 minutes and 23 lbs of fuel (3.4 gallons).
So, like I said before, you are legally able to fly through MOAs. Hot or cold. But sometimes it's not the smartest option. Please think twice about doing so. And be fair when arguing... maybe the Viper guy didn't use the best judgment... but neither did the two civilians. Admit it, and this would be a much more civil argument (no pun intended).