FA Problems?....help needed.

[sleddriver77]

These same FA have told me that they dont care that i am married and what happens on lay overs stays on lay overs.

No, it doesn't. Sometime, someone, somewhere will see or hear something and it WILL come back around and bite you in the ass. Or worse, you may bring something home to mama.

Sure, the occasional indiscretion may well occur, but you are apparently ACTIVELY SEEKING them. Decide whether you want to stay married; and if you do, the counseling is not a bad idea. If you want to keep playin' the field; play on, but cut the ol' lady loose. Not fair to her, unless she happens to be playing the field herself. (You ARE gone a lot, man.)

$0.02
Sled

 

[Bringupthebird]

Carry a small picture of comedian (?) Louie Anderson in your Jepp binder. When the FA's ask who that is, just wistfully say, "The only real man I'll never love again!..." Prob solved!

Seriously, decide whether your marriage really is more important than your job and be prepared to quit. Your job that is.

That's why Flight Attendants are different than lightbulbs. You can unscrew a light bulb.

 

[YourPilotFriend]

I am running into problems with flight attendants that i have put myself into. This is not to be flame bait but it is a serious question.

I am married but have had numerous sexual encounters with flight attendants. When i say numerous i am talking about 10 per year. This also does not include the females i meet in overnight at the hotel bar and i even met some in the elevators on the way to my room. I am not the best looking guy but average looking. The girls that i have had encounters with are pretty good looking and some are mormon and married.

Lately, i have attempted to change my ways and be honest to my wife. I have done everything possible to be faithful and i just get the urge to meet new people or hook up with the flight attendants. I have even tried locking my self up in the room and not to come out.

My question is that i know i have messed up and am very depressed on my cheating ways. I am putting myself through counselling. Lately, i have told the flight attendants that i saw in the past that i am no longer interested and we should stay friends. These same FA have told me that they dont care that i am married and what happens on lay overs stays on lay overs. I know that i am venting but does any one else have experienced the same thing as me and what was the outcome?

Again, i made numerous mistakes and am changing my life for the better. I have been depressed about it and would do anything to change my ways.

thank you for listening.

That doesn't sound too bad, it's when you do two flight attendants at the same time, and they fight over you on the trip back that it becomes a problem.

Dude seriously, don't post stuff that makes losers PFT because they think this profession will get them laid. IT WON'T.

 

[jetexas]

Fly for Eagle. Problem solved.

Ain't that the truth!

 

[ASADFW7]

If you want to pm me, I can offer some private council.

 

[wings421]

only 10 per year? I'm fat and have zits and log 20.

Falsification of documents = revocation. Better come clean with the real number!

 

[rayford steele]

Look like someone forgot to log out from the hotel computer. Doh!

 

[LIGHTDRIVER]

Don't feel guilty. Just get your wife to join in on the action!! She's doing the same thing and was feeling guilty herself.

 

[Spicepilots]

Just do what I do. Make sure to mention your wife somewhere in the beginning of the conversation with the FAs and show them a picture of her that you keep in the front of your jeps. Show the FAs that you love your wife and that you do not want any hanky panky. But you also have to make sure that you can hold up your part of the marriage bargain and stay faithful. Hard at times I know, but do your best.

 

[CX880]

Don't they offer courses on how to cheat on your spouse with a FA and keep it a secret when you go through your airlines ground school? I thought that was standard practice.