Marriage Counselor in SLC...Divorce Lawyer

[rod farva]

Or head down to Asplundh and rent a wood chipper. Almost worked for that TWA guy. Jeez this thread sure turned morbid

 

[e=mc2]

Pay as few of your bills as possible. Take the cash and hide it with your parents, or keep it as American Express Checks someplace. When they ask if you have any money tell them no, but you do have a gambling problem. Dump the B%$#@, give her half the debt, take the money and party for a week in Costa Rica after the divorce is final. Never get married again unless she is a born again C%*k S&*(er.

 

[aa73]

You're right. Some marriages are not salvageable. For example, If there is substance abuse, domestic violence, or habitual infidelity, its probably too late. But this isn't rocket science here. Having a good marriage after having problems is not against the laws of physics. As long as that is true, there is always a chance. Maybe it's worth trying to make it work, maybe not. Only you, your spouse, and your God can answer that. Kids certainly plays a big role in whether salvaging your marriage is worth. They are the only innocent ones that will pay the consequences of both of your inabilities to provide them what all kids deserve. Don't fall for the narcissistic mentality that kids will never be happy if either of you are not happy. That doesn't have to be true if both of you are willing to sacrifice for a time being. You fell in love once, it's not an impossibility of it happening again. But marriage is so much more about being in love. Communication is the key.

Its easier said than done but I feel that life isnt solely about doing what makes you happy and that it's about doing what is right. Do what is right and have faith that that will make you happy.

Good luck!

Best post yet on this subject. Well said my friend... too bad most of the population doesn't get this concept.

 

[NEDude]

My advice from my Dad, who was a divorce attorney, DO NOT MOVE OUT!! No matter how hard it gets during a divorce, stay in the home until judge tells you that it is not your any more. Also, keep very detailed notes on everything she does.

My ex was cheating on my, and was planning the divorce for a few months ahead of telling me. She stopped paying the bills and drained my savings to spend it on her out of state boyfriend. When she told me what was happening I refused to leave. So she moved out of state and left the kids with me.

In the end, with no attorney, I got full custody of my kids, all the furniture and other household items, and she got all the debt.

Now a few years down the road it is fun to listen to her complain about the trashy 30 year old single wide trailer her and her new husband rent, his struggling to find a pizza delivery job, and the crushing debt they have...

Sometimes a divorce does work out very well for the guy.

 

[NEDude]

Pay as few of your bills as possible. Take the cash and hide it with your parents, or keep it as American Express Checks someplace. When they ask if you have any money tell them no, but you do have a gambling problem. Dump the B%$#@, give her half the debt, take the money and party for a week in Costa Rica after the divorce is final. Never get married again unless she is a born again C%*k S&*(er.

Be careful, my ex tried doing that with me. Fortunately I was able to prove that is what she did. She got stuck with ALL the debt.

 

[CX880]

That's why you never go for the good looking blond, they'll leave you once they realize what a pilot really is worth especially now at days. It's a tradeoff go for average ones and there will be dinner and a good lay every time you come back.

 

[NEDude]

That's why you never go for the good looking blond, they'll leave you once they realize what a pilot really is worth especially now at days. It's a tradeoff go for average ones and there will be dinner and a good lay every time you come back.

Also stay far away from American chicks...

 

[airplane wizard]

Hookers are the least expensive in the long run.

 

[CapnVegetto]

Liquidate all your assets. Buy a boat fir cash, head out to the Carribbean, tell her "good luck finding me".

 

[on autopilot]

My advice from my Dad, who was a divorce attorney, DO NOT MOVE OUT!! No matter how hard it gets during a divorce, stay in the home until judge tells you that it is not your any more. Also, keep very detailed notes on everything she does.

My ex was cheating on my, and was planning the divorce for a few months ahead of telling me. She stopped paying the bills and drained my savings to spend it on her out of state boyfriend. When she told me what was happening I refused to leave. So she moved out of state and left the kids with me.

In the end, with no attorney, I got full custody of my kids, all the furniture and other household items, and she got all the debt.

Now a few years down the road it is fun to listen to her complain about the trashy 30 year old single wide trailer her and her new husband rent, his struggling to find a pizza delivery job, and the crushing debt they have...

Sometimes a divorce does work out very well for the guy.

I agree. I was married to a Comair flight attendant that left me while I was still in flight school. She tried to ruin my career before it even started by telling the chief pilots I was dangerous, I child molester, couldn't fly and was a wife beater (namely her) She even went so far as to call the creditors of the flight training loan we had co-signed for and told them I misspent the money. I also had strong reason to believe she was cheating.

When we got before the judge my suspicions were confirmed when she took the 14th and 5th amendments and used the Florida spousal privacy law to refuse to answer those questions.

The Judge sanctioned her, gave her half of my flight loan (over 40 large) and chatised her for being a compulsive liar.
just like your ex, she is having it hard, lives in low income housing and still bad mouths me to anyone who will listen. She also tries to find out what I am up to, breaking into my email accounts, etc. I am going to give her a little more to bad mouth me with. I am going to file bankrupcy and award to her the full loan amount. Seems Uncle Sam doesn't like it when you engage in debt by deception.

Moral of the story Never Marry a (Comair) or any flight Attendant!!!