It goes beyond the meals. The overall lack of consideration is simply astonishing.
As we boarded the Limo for the ride to the airport I climb in and craw the farthest seat, Captain climbs behind me. He then observes in a wisper,
"watch the first flight attendant, she will sit down and block the door and make the others climb over her." Sure enough, she plops down in the first seat by the door and they all climb over. To top it off, she lights a cigarette and tries to blow the smoke out the door opening.
Bags in the aisle, blocking the doors, delaying departure until we are just barely late because they have some little turf war with the Gate Agent ... and really, is it the first time a First Officer has asked for a garbage bag?
Someone tell me, if the aisle is 23 inches wide, why isn't it a occupational qualification to not have a butt that exceeds that space limitation? Thursday (DTW-ATL) I witnessed a FA knock every single aisle passenger's drink over as she tried to walk, crab style, up the aisle after a beverage service. The passengers could only crouch to the center, or try to get up and move, so she could waddle by. Not once did I hear an "I'm sorry" or "excuse me" despite several passengers who needed napkins and were trying to fix their soiled clothing.
I try to be nice, help the ladies with their cat hair covered luggage and ignore the unmitigated arrogance. Like ACL65 said, it isn't worth it.
BUTT - There should be a rule. Maybe Sir Mix A Lot is hiring ... he'd like you.
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