If you dont mind another pocket full of change I will add my .02 cents. I have known different types of jobs. I have seen corporate jobs, manual labor trade jobs, and currently a flying career. If you have to work to exist you are going to have problems, bad days, drawbacks, regrets, etc...
You can have a job that pays well
You can have a job that you love to do
You can have both but you can't have neither for that is a quick way to early grave. Every person is different and we all have different aspects of life that must be addressed and considered most important. I am single and honestly I do not know how guys that are married and especially have small children do flying as a career. Well maybe if the wife is ugly and kids are rotten I can. When I was in the 9-5 world I enjoyed knowing what time I was leaving, going to the gym, running errands after work, being home, every weekend off etc... At the same time I felt like I was at Shawshank prison minus the violent man sex. I get that in aviation from management. There are no guarantees but there are more stable areas to earn your living and aviation isnt one of them regardless of a hiring turn around or whatever is happening. Aviation will forever be a crapshoot. I am fortunate, as I have been in the business less than 10 years and never was I furloughed, moved backwards or even sideways. I am not in debt from aviation and I only really struggled financially for a year. The 9-5 life has nothing that I really want and I can say I love what I do. A few final words. There are many professions that allow you to be home every night but the amount of work, pressure, and time that the job demands means you can only be home to sleep and shower every night. Are you really home then? I have known people that spend better than 12 hours a day for work and commute and often have work to do at home. They live the profession 24/7. Success often demands a lot. Lastly, in response to "flying that bonanza". I recently flew GA and did a favor for local flight school. That was more terrifying than flying in thunderstorms, ice, and LGA to minimums with a new FO. No TCAS, planes all over, uncontrolled field with people not following a single rule of flying. I wish you the best in your endeavors and you will know if you make the right decision.