learflyer said:
What the heck do you do when you've already "pursued your dream"?
You find
another dream and follow it.
Or you just start working at ANY new job. I started waiting tables for a bit at a restaurant, until things started to come together. It was fun, I was able to get the airline mentality out of my mind, and I met plenty of interesting people. Plus, I made more money than a 2nd year FO.
I was about to go into car sales- Why car sales? Because I understand that 99% of the successful individuals out there got their start in sales, and there are few better places to develop your skills than in an automobile dealership.
Instead, another sales and marketing opportunity presented itself in a totally different field, and I jumped on it.
Understand that just because you sank a lot of time and effort and money into flying, it dosen't mean you have to ride the flaming wreckage all the way down. You can always bail out, take what you learned and use that in your new life (when people find out I used to be a airline pilot, that really generates interset on their part. Interest turns into relationships. Relationships build sales. Sales equal commisions, which pay a lot more than flying!)
Bailing out dosent mean you're a failure, either. I ALWAYS wanted to fly international widebody. Guess what? I did that. I got to the top, and I didn't like the view. And you know what else? It happens all the time.
A book that really helped influence my thinking was called "Fired Up!", by
Harvey Mackey. It inspired me to do better. Well, that and the thought of my wife alone all the time. And then the thought of waking up next to her every single morning... I'll take that over some crummy hotel in bufu
any day of the week!
They say that you change your career every 7 years. You're only 34 (I'm 30) so you still have the capacity to learn new things fairly easily. Go out, explore, and see what else you're capable of! It's scary at first, but soon after, you'll be so glad you bailed you'll be wondering why you didn't do it sooner!
It's all in your head. YOU control your future. Don't let some @sshole at ALPA or some scab at the Teamsters do it for you. They're all miserable washed up pathetic wastes anyway- I say LET them have their flight time! MY life is to valuable to be spent bickering with a bunch of overgrown whiners, and I'm sure yours is too.