bart
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- Nov 26, 2001
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I have found respect is the key and that it is a two way street. In my experience, If I respect the young captain and his abilities (they must have done something right to get where they are), the respect is mutual.
I have also found that by not respecting the other person, regardless of position, the have no room to respect me. Though I wish I had entered the game sooner, this is the way it is. I have yet to fly with a captain older than me and suspect it will be a long time before I do.
I find that like Surplus1, if I put my attitude, experience, maturity and good judgement to work for the purpose of benefitting the captain, they end up learning and having a high opinion of me. I also find myself learning from them.
At the end of the day, the experience is more enjoyable when I respect their authority and do what I can to put them at ease, after all I am sure it can be intimidating to them to know the guy in the left seat was driving when they were in diapers...
I have also found that by not respecting the other person, regardless of position, the have no room to respect me. Though I wish I had entered the game sooner, this is the way it is. I have yet to fly with a captain older than me and suspect it will be a long time before I do.
I find that like Surplus1, if I put my attitude, experience, maturity and good judgement to work for the purpose of benefitting the captain, they end up learning and having a high opinion of me. I also find myself learning from them.
At the end of the day, the experience is more enjoyable when I respect their authority and do what I can to put them at ease, after all I am sure it can be intimidating to them to know the guy in the left seat was driving when they were in diapers...