The only women that really digs me is my wife after a 8 to 10 day trip. She really likes it if I went to the "big sand box" as fate has sent me to danger and brought me back again. The uniform.... this is something that I just don't understand but it sure helps. Stopping a few blocks from home after a trip and putting on a fresh shirt, after shave, and cleaning up helps too. My wife loves to try and get me to take my uniform off just before I leave on a trip. She knows I leave an hour early and she is always trying to make me compromise that hour. You know you are getting old when you walk out of the house in a t-shirt and jeans and change at the airport-it is just easier. If I had had any idea that women loved the flight deck that much I would encourage more to view it prior to flying-WOW. As for the FA's just remember that all ours are "guys", at least that is what I tell my wife. Cheers.