This job is about 3 things: chics, money and time off.
Anyone that tells you that they do it for "their love of flying" hasn't really done any (real flying) and probably lists a Cessna in their profile.
Oh, did I mention it's just a job? Remember that, and you will never worry about 99% of the crap on this board.
New Flash...Hot chicks don't dig 50 yr. old balding FOs even if they are making almost 100K/yr with two whole weekends off/month! Its over.