I think John Travolta said it best: Flying is my profession, but acting is my job. I don't think those were his exact words, but the point is valid. I was so passionate about flying and had so much fun with it that I decided to drop a high paying job working for a rapidly growing (stock wise too) company, took out a huge loan, and moved my life into flight training in hopes of doing it as a career. Welp, today, I'm in a huge debt, I don't have a flying job, can't get into it because I can't afford to (thanks to delays at the CAPT program and their incompentence), and have lost my passion for flying.
I'm trying to get that passion back but without the money to support it, there's nothing but despair every time I think about airplanes or hear one (which is to say every 3 minutes thanks to NY Approach). My currency is about to run out and frankly, I don't even know why I want to get it back so that in 6 months I'm back here again trying to figure out how to muster up the money just to keep current. The number of hours logged since I left flight training at the beginning of this year? Zero to-date.
So, I think a lot about what my CFI told me when I told him I wanted to do it as a career these days. Had I listened to him, I'd still be able to fly WHENEVER I wanted and ENJOYED my flights to KACK or KMVY or other destinations on the weekends and still have a bundle of cash. What I've learned from my experience is that flight training outfits is just another money making engine. The people that run it don't care (at least not at CAPT). And most of all, one has to have a TON of cash on hand to sit around to wait for some regional airline to call you so that you can work for $19 an hour for that first year, and then make a morsel more each year while praying that the airline doesn't go out of business or cut your pay scale. Oh, and the time away from friends and family. In my early days of aviation, I gave up everything to do this. Now, I'm broke beyond recognition and the sound of an airplane just pisses me off (every 3 minutes thanks to NY Approach).
So, to answer your question, what should you do? Do something that makes money that affords you the privilege to fly on your terms and enjoy the flying. I used to hate my job, but I also knew that every 2 weeks I got a paycheck that more than allowed me to fly a few hours on the weekends to wash away all that negative energy at the office. And if you read on the forums, there are pilots who have admitted that they lost the passion and that flying is just another job. Well, I rather be making bank doing just another job and enjoy my flying on my terms than to join the misery and enslavement of getting into a regional airline and hope to the Gods (because one just won't cut it) that I might get into flying for a major airline and have a relatively stable career at a good pay.
Why shouldn't you choose something that you enjoy? I enjoy driving but I haven't signed up with the nearest trucking school; although it would have been a lot cheaper to do. Truth is, driving a truck is more attainable and realistic (to me at least) than getting into the airlines. And there are other jobs that are more attainable and still allows you to enjoy aviation. I got friends in certain state jobs that gives them a killer salary and a pension for sleeping on the job or do next to nothing and it cost them very little to get. I guarantee you that you won't find that with aviation far less making a career. I recall watching my King Private DVDs where the opening scene was John King asking what makes airplanes fly. He joked with the answer: money. I just didn't realize how dead serious he was. Money flies airplanes. Your money. And when you're working for the airlines, you're still paying. You're paying with the money they're not giving you. You're paying with your sacrifices away from home.
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