There is no requirement under Part 121 for a headset to meet a particular TSO. A TSO is not an approval; it is a Technical Standard Order, and provides a set of criteria that certain equipment must meet.
Other equipment used under Part 121 must meet TSO requirements, such as transponders, traffic collision avoidance systems, etc.
You may be thinking of approval (authorization), which is different than meeting TSO. An item which meets TSO specs may or may not be approved for installation. However, a headset does not require approval.
A Technical Standard Order is issued by the Administrator and is a minimum performance standard for specified articles (used on civil aircraft. A TSO authorization is a little different, and may be what you were referring to: it is an FAA design and production approval issued to the manufacturer of an article which has been found to meet a specific TSO.
No person may identify an article with a TSO marking unless that person holds a TSO authorization and the article meets applicable TSO performance standards.
The Radio Technical Commission for Aeronautics (RTCA) sets forth a basic standard in DO-160B, upon which Technical Standard Orders FAA TSO C-57A (headset and speakers) and 58A (microphones) are based on.
In order for a headset to be marked with a TSO number, it must meet those standards (of the TSO). This is not an approval however, and if the manufacturer elects not to mark the headset with the TSO number, then it doesn't need to meet that standard. If the manufacturer does elect to have the product marked, it must not only meet the standard, but get a TSO authorization from the FAA.
If you're going to start flying 121, then consider investing in a lightweight headset, such as a Plantronics T50, or Telex Airman. Use your old headvise until you get into a quieter airplane. The opportunities to fly loud airplanes under 121 are getting fewer and fewer, and before long, you'll be in a fairly quiet cockpit. When you get there, you won't want something that weighs more than a few ounces, or squeezes your head like a criminal lemon.
If you already have a headset, and money is an issue (if you're flying an airplane that requires noise attenuation, then it's a given that money is an issue...you're in aviation, right?), invest in a set of Oregon Aero earpads and a new headpad, and make do with what you already have. It's a lot less expensive, every bit as good, and chances are that whatever you're using now already has a TSO approval and number on it. Fly safe!