Chase,
Good advice. When I went thru I was all exicited when I got the call for the drug test. Then I heard they were calling my references. Actually, I don't remember which event happened first, but I took them as good signs.
Then I heard absolutely nada! Every day I'd go to the mailbox dreading getting the bad letter. Each day I didn't hear anything made the next trip to the box ever more difficult.
Then one day I was running way late for my trip to Korea and was out the door when I remembered I didn't go to the mailbox. I opened it completely forgetting about SWA and there it was front and center, a tan envelope.
Suddenly I froze. I ended up going back into the house and I sat on my bed for what had to be ten minutes and I just looked at the envelope. I remember giving myself this little pep talk, assuring myself that flying international charter isn't so bad.
Well, I finally opened it up. It was the legal letter which said, but didn't say, I had a job. I had to call a buddy at SW to 'decode' the letter. He assured me it was the good letter.
I left for Osan and a week or so later I landed in Seattle. I fired up my cell phone and there was a message from the OAK chief pilot. So I called him back right from the flight deck and he goes 'Are you calling me from Korea?' I told him I had just gotten back, and how did he know I was there? (He had called my parents number looking for me). Anyway, he said "I just have one more question: What size leather jacket do you wear?"
That was so cool! I started writing down my class date information and the other two FO's on my trip who were reading over my shoulder were like "You got a class date with SW! You bastard!" I was like "What are you complaining about, you just went up a number."
Anyway, that was just the greatest feeling in the world.
Wow.. I just realized this, but that phone call was seven years ago next week.
So back to the point of the message... YES do anything to take your mind off of it. If it's meant to be it will be. Don't make yourself crazy. The waiting can turn into agonizing torture if you let it.
I think the trick is keep your mind on your present job. Find things to do in your off time besides stressing out.
And when you get the call make sure you do something to properly commemorate the occasion!