Here's what I think...
Guys and gals,
Part of the problem with our career choice is that it doesn't yield any real high dividends until much much later in the game. This will sometimes call for desperate measures, such as bankruptcy, but even this will only do you any good if your debt is unsecured (such as credit cards and the like).
I have known folks that have filed and it has produced very positive results, and then there's those that have gotten hosed (but they lost things like their cars, homes, boats and RVs).
Then there's the credit counselors, but this may as well be a bankruptcy too. I have known MANY folks who believed that this was the only responsible thing to do, but now their credit scores are consistent with those who have had charge-offs (in the middle 500s). Oh yeah, with regards to charge-offs... A friend of mine in the finance business once told me that if you do let a credit card get charged off (you know, that is if you don't make a payment for 90 days), don't even bother with it. Even if you felt the urge to do the right thing and just pay it off later, it still reports to the agencies as a charge off- just resolved. This wont really make a difference in your credit score.
Then there's me... I didn't deal with credit for many years in a row while I didn't have the money to be acquiring debt, and while I wasn't watching, my credit got jacked. A number of errors/identity fraud items were suddenly affixed, and this is a real beeotch to remove. It's not that big of a deal, but it takes time for all of it to be removed. So check your credit, guys... At least once a year.
The truth is, there is virtually zero integrity to the credit reporting systems, and I think we all agree (except Duksrule) that just because you went out and acquired a 50 to 100 thousand dollar education, and now you can't pay for the meals you had to charge while you were in training for your $17,000 per year job, that you're still a good person.
Don't give up, you'll make it. In the mean time, drink your roomies beers while he's on a trip... This will save a few bucks.
Please PM me if you have any questions.
Regards bros,
Jason