Brownie and Rnobson,
Sorry that you had that experience.
Most of our guys are commuters and understand what its like to be left behind. Just about everyone I've flown with would go out of their way to get a jumper on if they knew you were trying.
Fwiw, it now costs nothing for us to ride in a coach seat and a nominal service charge for first class.
If this situation ever happens to you again at NWA or elsewhere, may i suggest you sharpen your people skills. Offer to buy 'em a starbucks or cookies. Humble guestures go a long way in situations like these.