Flagshipper,
Nice post. I realize I don't have 91 or 135 experience at all. I do have plenty of friends doing it (one is a former commander) and they all do it out of the airfield we work out of. I hear, talk, watch all that goes on. I know the difference between good and bad support from flight operations as well as maintenance. I have had plenty of time to decide what I want and to be honest, it is CS. Wether I get it or not is another matter but for everything I want, they have it.
I personally don't want someone else filing my flight plans, planning my routes around weather, giving me my alternates, planning my meals, ect.. I have NEVER had anyone do that for me. I have been doing it myself for my whole flying career. Some who have never been in the military don't understand how we have operated or operate. Pilots, particularly the PIC is in charge of EVERYTHING from arranging our own hotels, meals, rental cars, diplomatic clearances, customs, ect.. I have been carrying the same lunch box with me in the airplane for 20+ years. We are doing it all and I LOVE IT. CS has you file your own flight plans, and seem to give the pilots some relative autonomy in their flight decision making...that is right down my alley. I guess I don't want someone sitting at a desk telling me where and how I am going to fly my mission. That, in my book is for me to decide, plan and execute.
Things I expect? I expect camraderie (spelling?) out of my fellow employees. I expect to have a GREAT time on the road with my PIC/Captain. I expect to learn from my PIC/Captain. I expect to be rewarded/appreciated for my hard work, by everyone and they will receive the same respect from me, ect..
I look forward to someday working for CS. I do not look forward to my last day in the military, even if I win Powerball or any other lotto. I LOVE IT! My decision to leave is going to strictly be a monetary one for getting my kids through college. My wife and I already have decided we would go back in if we found the civilian side is not what we wanted. I would NOT hesitate.
Anyways, that is where I am coming from. I know there are going to be plenty of guys/gals I fly with who will not understand my background and I will remain silent and nod my head when they complain about how rough they have it.
I hope one day you can get the job you really want. To be honest, I don't think there is any such thing as the perfect job.
Best of luck to you Flagshipper.
BTW, I love your honesty.