I don't know where to begin with this...
I am amazed at what I'm reading here. I have to question whether most of these posts are from professional pilots. Diregarding the whole "CAL" vs "CalEXP" theme, I am disturbed by what I am reading here. This isn't brain surgery folks. Let me respond to some of these posts:
AKAAB: You found fault with the Exec-Jet pilot whom you expected to introduce himself... I don't know where to begin. Number one, he's a paying customer...leave him alone! I travel on a LOT of other airlines, almost always as a full-fare pax, and sometimes in uniform. If you question whether or not a pilot is traveling for free, look at the manifest, don't bother me. I don't feel the slightest responsibility to introduce myself to the pilots up front...I've got a full-fare ticket in my pocket! Leave me alone! I've probably been on duty for about 20 hours before I show up on your airplane, and trust me, I'm not in the mood to be screwed with... Wait until you have an actual emergency before you start recruiting my exhausted a$$. I'm my own travel agency...I get to pick what airline to fly on, and when, and if I get hassled by a crew, I'm looking elsewhere.
Ty Webb: You simultaneously denounce NWA for leaving your jumpseaters behind, then threaten to do the same to NWA pilots...Why would your leaving NWA pilots behind not be subject to "being pursued at the highest level right now, as it should be"? What's the difference between leaving your pilots behind for no good reason versus leaving their pilots behind for no good reason? Being pi$$ed off isn't a good reason to treat an innocent pilot wrongly.
As far as reciprocity goes: things balance out. I've been lucky enough in my career to work for companies that weren't opposed to jumpseaters in principle. At one point, I worked for a non-sched that didn't offer much in the way of reciprical benefits, and at other times I've worked for industry-leaders. Right now I work for ATA, which is very jumpseat friendly. The ironic part is that I personally fly the L1011, so I can't offer reciprical jumpseats, although my company does. Also, I'm an FO...does that mean I should expect hostility if I try to jumpseat? After all, I can't personally approve a jumpseat request.
Jumpseating is real simple: You are polite at all times, you ask the Captain's permission to ride, you do what the FA's tell you to do and at all times comport yourself as a professional. When another pilot approaches you for a jumpseat..try to make it as pleasant an experience as possible. All this talk of using the jumpseat as a weapon is really depressing.