We all start out “green”, but as we gain more experience, hopefully, we become “seasoned”.
Fantastic. Yeah, I have had the chance to observe in my training that if I were doing this in real life, down to minimums every day...I'd probably kill myself. I flew one GPS approach where I forgot to suspend when I hit the IAF and somehow flew to the MAP before starting my descent, thinking I was established inbound at the FAF. Ooops. My CFII let me go visual a few miles short of the imagined MAP and a few hundred feet above MDA. There was no airport. There were towers directly in front of me. If it were real, I would have flown into them.
It scared me.
Those 2 books you mentioned, I already have and have read both of them. I concur, they are FANTASTIC. You should add Rod Machado's instrument pilot survival guide (silly, but FULL of tons of great info) to your list of reccomended books.
After he filled out my new certificate, I asked the DE to give me some advice on getting my feet wet with weather flying. We both acknowledged that being new to IFR makes decision making WAY harder than it's been as a VFR only pilot.
His advice was almost exactly what I have thought I would do for myself to build experience:
1. Make some XC trips with VMC at departure, VMC at destination and a little bit of high, easily escaped IMC enroute.
2. Gradually ease into departing into slightly lower weather, encountering some IMC enroute and having VMC at the destination.
3. From there, as I get more comfortable, gradually ease into flying approaches in actual at the destination, but breaking out way, way early (like, at the FAF I should be able to cancel).
4. From there, as comfort grows, gradually start flying approaches in lower weather. Very conservatively.
Sounded more or less like exactly what I had planned on.
The other thing we talked about was thunderstorms and how these crappy performing little cessnas don't give you a lot of options for escaping. It's imperative to be able to avoid them, so if they're out there and you can't get on top of the coluds to SEE where the cells are...don't fly. Always have either in flight weather radar or visual contact with the cells. Center vectors will get you killed.