I would estimate you could get your private through CFII/MEI for ~$35k at a good local FBO. You'd likely be able to do this in the same amount of time if you're committed.
Visit a couple of airports near where you live, talk to some instructors, CPs, current students.. I'm sure someone on this board could recommend some local flight schools in Ohio (close to your hometown). I think AOPA's website has a flight school directory that could also steer you in the right direction.
Just be wary of flashy ads for these high priced flight schools. They'll promise you the world because you're another $100k they can take to the bank. And I'm not saying none of them deliver on their promises (some try, and some don't), they just cost WAY too much. Most on this board will discourage them, and advise you to invest that time/money on a more economical route.