You guys are something. Regardless of the original post, the comments I have read here tonight make my stomach turn. This could have happened (similar) to anyone of us and I for one would appreciate a card as a gesture of the kind thoughts that it would signify. The family had a tremendous loss, I can't phathom losing one of our children. However, I can not imagine being in the pilots shoe's either. This is something they will carry for the rest of their lives. So, get over yourselves and try to find a little compassion in your hearts for the people who were involved ... on BOTH sides. This is our profession and we should help our brothers and sisters any way we can. Forget the petty my airline and your airline jargun, there will be another day for that, that I am sure.