Hoover -
Judging by your profile....sounds like your contemplating some things. Lots of experienced folks here to help answer your questions.
Me, I'm (very) recently retired from the Navy, flew the C-2 Greyhound at VRC-30, San Diego. We're the "rubber dog-shXX out of Hong-Kong" guys. We fly parts/mail/personnel on and off aircraft carriers wherever they're deployed.
My experience has been:
1) to corroborate what the rescue swimmer said: CAG's love to come fly with every bird in the wing. In the old days, the wings were complex with A4's, A6's, A7's, F14's and so much more. Now it's simpler, cuz they're all F18s. (The "pointy nose mafia" has taken over the fleet)
2) Driving the COD, I've flown many a star (and a bazillion O6's, O5's and their wives) on and off the boat. They usually chill in the back...but on occasion will ask to come up front. We train for this eventuality - discussing it at length in pilot upgrade boards..."what if...." stuff. We never let the DV (Distinguished Visitor) fly the aircraft during "critical phases of flight" (takeoffs and landings - even ashore) - and I know of no-one who's ever had a DV challenge this policy. There isn't a senior officer out there who will challenge you when you say something to the effect of "the safest course of action is....XXX"
I retired as an O-4 (did some Enlisted time up front) and was up for promotion to O5 when I "quit" //slash// retired. I did so for family reasons (got a 5 year old and a 6 year old). BUT...not lost on my mind were the following considerations:
- next "competitive" assignment as an O5 would be a desk//staff job - very limited (if any) flying. They were screaming at me to take "joint duty" (meaning go to the AF or Army and work with them). Almost zero flight opportunities for someone from my community in that case.
- I.A. - "Individual Augmentation" - the CNO (Chief of Naval Operations) has stated that EVERY sailor in the navy will spend one year in Iraq/Afghanistan in the next several years. (i.e. not flying duty!!)
- beyond that - there's a CHANCE of making command//Skipper of a COD squadron - which IS duty involving flying. BUT....as was mentioned earlier in this post - your responsibilities outside the cockpit preclude you having time (or wanting to take the time) to fly. You will fly - but seldom - and you will rely upon your 4,000 or so flight hours to be able to "keep up" with the "kids". (yeah: take note: you'll be lucky to get 4,000 hours in 17 years with the military...in the COD community anyway...)
- Note: This is the stuff that happens at about year 16 or 17 of a typical Officer's career in my community.
Speaking of community - this is probably the most important concept to grasp if you are contemplating military flying. You just don't hop around communities in the military flying world. The Officers who make it to the top (The Senior guys you asked about) get there because they are successful and make a name for themselves (stand out) in a single community - they develop networks/reputation which gives momentum to their career. In the Navy, the F-18 community is the breeding ground for most all the big wigs/CAGs.
"choose your rate, choose your fate" is a famous navy moniker. Same applies for moving up in the aviation world. Go online and search out senior officer biographies and look back at what they did to get where they are. That will tell you a lot about where you could be if you're ambitious, intelligent and successful (and most importantly: dont' screw the pooch!! hah!).
Hope that helps. Sorry so long winded. I'm currently un-employed and have TOO much time on my hands. I'm waiting for that call (from Trump): "you're hired!"
COD God