Walking in Memphis
We moved to Collierville about 2 years ago while waiting for a class date at FedEx. Having spent 20 years moving around the country it was nice to finally pick a spot to live for our own reasons. The main reason we chose to live here is so that I could see my family once in a while. Having spent the last year and a half on reserve and with little hope of moving off reserve for another few months at best, a year or two possibly, that has turned out to be a good choice.
Collierville is a nice city of about 30,000 people just about 23 miles from the hub. It reminds me a lot of Northern Virginia because it nice wide streets, large brick homes, and a lot of parks. Its just about 10 times as humid as NoVa. When I go for runs along the greenway trails I say hello to people and they actually say hello back. I just spent a week out in California and couldn't even get eye contact with people when I went running past. The people down south are still pretty friendly for the most part, which is what I really like about the south.
There are some nice, high scoring, neighborhood schools in Collierville and overall the Shelby county school system is actually pretty good. Certainly a step or two up from the public school system in Mobile, AL, which is where we came from and where I would have liked to have stayed, but just didn't want to commute if I didn't have to. When we did our househunting trip up here we found a great neighborhood and a nice house, and my wife really liked the school, so that was that. She was also able to find a part time (by choice, full time was available too) job at the Baptist hospital in town only about 5 miles from our doorstep.
I don't care much for Memphis proper, although there is a nice kid's museum, zoo, and botanical gardens that my wife and kids love to go to. The music festivals that Albie mentioned are very popular, as is Beale Street. The crime issue in Memphis proper is certainly an issue, but name a large city where crime isn't an issue. I personally prefer to stay away from ANY large city, and crime is an issue everywhere, certainly something to consider anywhere you live.
As a commuter you will end up spending more time away from home while on reserve or trying to fly the pm side of the schedule. If you live in a city that is an outstation you may get to bid trips that originate in that city (after a deadhead from Memphis that you would just bank) when you are senior enough, and you will get to spend a lot of time at home. Most of those trips are am trips though, so you will spend most of your flying doing hub turns. Not the end of the world, its just a matter of what you would prefer to do.
The bottom line is that if you have a compelling reason to live in a particular place (family, job, home town, whatever), FedEx is a great company for a commuter. That has been documented on several other threads.
If you don't have a compelling reason to stay put, moving to Memphis will make your life a lot easier at the outset and enable you a few more options about what type of trips you would prefer to fly. Then all you have to do is shrug off all the "oh I'm sorry" comments you get from the guys who don't live here when you tell them where you live, and smile as they run off to catch their jumpseat home at the end of your trip.
Best of luck.
FJ