I keep hearing "find a second career outside of aviation" but what I can't figure out is how do you guys do it? Between flying a full line, doing time in the reserves, and helping my wife raise young children, I for one don't have much time left. I suppose if I want to sacrifice family time, I can possibly start a business on the side but then, I got no $ for that either. Family is why I got out of active duty in the first place. I know... no excuses but reality is what it is. So, if you guys have any ideas, let's hear them.
Everyone has a story, and everyone is different...but if you are really asking a question I'll give you a few of my thoughts...
First--you cannot take on another "job". What you CAN do is engage in one of your passions, and if one of those passions allows you to make a little extra money then good on ya. Do you skydive? Maybe you could buy a share in a twin otter or C182 and fly some divers out of strip on the weekends. Do you LIKE making or installing cabinets? Working on cars? Doing construction type work? Perhaps you could do some of the thinks you LIKE in your part time. Are you a solid weight lifter? Lots of folks want personal trainers. In other words--don't go looking for money--look for opportunities to perhaps make a little money doing something you already enjoy.
Choose something that you can include your family in during the process. For me--my wife is integral to our consulting business. Her work in and out of pageantry was a catalyst to the whole idea of a coaching business, and (as a lot of successful Jetblue, FedEx, and SWA clients can attest) she's a darn good coach in her own right. When we do a workshop out of town, very often Melissa is right there with me working with some of the clients. Usually the day before or after we are doing something fun with family. For instance--my mom lives in the Orlando area so any central Florida seminars involve spending time with my mom and letting her enjoy her grandkids.
I didn't start Emerald Coast to get rich or make money. I started it to help a few folks and make enough to offset the time I was giving up by working with folks. Well...things took off and we've been very blessed...and we've grown considerably. But my point is I didn't start off thinking this was be huge, but rather it was something I ENJOYED. Success will usually follow your passions...
Now--the next chapter. I have no idea how this one will turn out, but we just bought a huge horse farm/boarding facilty. Why? Well...for my first 18 years of life I was a huge horse fan, and that gene got passed to my girls. Even though I really haven't ridden a horse since college, my oldest daughter has been mesmorized by the creatures since before she could talk. I finally started them on some riding lessons last year, and discovered that this didn't appear to be a passing fad but rather true passion. Well...this horse facility has been for sale for over a year--I made an offer--and the rest is history. My goals for the facility are modest....I dont' expect to make any money on it for quite a while. But--while I am out there working--my girls will be out there working along side me or riding. The joy will come from being involved with my kids in a mutual passion... I think there is potential on this farm to make some money with boarding, lessons, and shows....as well as property appreciation. However--like the other business...I ain't in it to get rich. However, I think if we work on our passions success usually follows...
Now...if you are
really are asking for advice...I'll give you 3 more tidbits...probably worth just what you pay for them.
I loved the military. I couldn't be what I am without it. However--you can easily pour every bit of your life and 14 hours a day into a sink that you just cannot plug. Take pride in what you do...but as a part-timer realize you are there to fly the equipment--and there are problems in the force you cannot solve. When I stopped trying to be an "active duty Major" after 2 years in the ANG and concentrated on doing my "niche" job of flying and teaching, life got a lot simpler. I tried to do all I did active duty when I was a part timer--for a while. When I went back to being "F15 IP" and not "Mr fix it" life was much easier and left me some time and emotional energy to tackle other challenges...outside of the force.
Second...dont' be afraid to fail. My wife has a passion for beauty pageants. We bought a franchise and back in 2002-2003 tried to put on some pageants in Alabama. In short--we lost our butts quickly. That was okay--we dusted ourselves off--laughed--and took our lessons learned. A lot of our Emerald Coast success came from the lessons we learned in that failure. Nobody bats 1000. You will swing and miss sometimes. Just try to set things up so one mistake can't take you out financially...don't bet the ranch on 1 great idea.
Finally--and this is personal...tithe. After years of not doing that, I realized before I left the AF that if I was ever going to start the time to do it was "right now". So...when I left active I started. I don't want to preach to anyone on an internet forum, but I can tell you our family has never struggled since we made that committment. We've worked hard--but there always seems to be more than enough to honor our committment and still live very comfortably. (I ain't pefect...I cuss, get frustrated, and do a lot of imperfect stuff. But...you ASKED how folks managed to make it work. I'm just sharing how it worked for us in our house...)
Sorry if we are wasting time better spent saying "Jetblue sucks", "military pilots are jerks", or other standard subject matter. Now back to your regularly scheduled thread....