The funny thing here is that everyone misses the same stuff....whether you got out in '92 or '02. We all say the same things. "I can't stand the azz-kissing O-5's/O-6's." "I miss the flying and the bros, not the politics." "It's too PC, and there's too much BS."
See a pattern? Chicken/beef, same same. The truly ironic thing is that the O-6's we bitch about see themselves as "not like those guys" back when THEY were O-3's.
I left AD in '04. Through nothing I did, my Senator worked a deal for my guard unit to fly F-22's. I'm doing that now and absolutely love it. I left AD unwillingly (I was going to fly T-38s, which is not why I signed up), and landed at a great guard unit. I loved the Active Duty, never got screwed, flew with great dudes, had great commanders, and had 3 kick azz ops tours. Then I flew two years in the Guard before I went to Raptors, where I'll fly for the next 10+ years. ZERO COMPLAINTS.
That said, when I do hang up the ATAGS (g-suit for the non-Raptor guys....bragging), I'll miss the bros I flew with and the BFM / 2 v 8's / shots at the bar much, much, much more than I'll miss the queep.
That's natural. Hell, my dad is a 62 yr old F-4 guy and he'd gladly trade 15 yrs of life expectancy for ONE more 4 v X vs F-15's from Bitburg. It's in your blood and you'll always miss it.
Still, with all the queep and BS we all have to deal with, you will NOT find an organization with better people the US military.