usafa Dad
Ditto to what the others have posted. The only real advantage I ever felt I had as an Academy grad was at the beginning of UPT. In my class I had numerous friends from the Zoo, and had buddies who started training a month earlier who could give me some "gouge" while I was waiting for training to start. The ROTC, OTS, and Guard/Reserve guys needed a little more of an adjustment time. SUPT is highly structured and very similar to the Academy experience, and can be sometimes frustrating to those who aren't used to all the military rules.
As a Zoomie and 2-time UPT IP who is now retired and teaching simulators at an SUPT base, please allow me to post my 2 cents.
In my opinion, the best UPT students, and the ones I always wanted as an IP, were the Academy grads who had been Soaring IPs. They were usually better than any high time civilian pilot I ever trained for several reasons: They had a lot of highly regulated, structured military flying time, so they were used to military rules and regs. They were also used to the training environment and didn't get upset by being critiqued, as many of us pilots tend to be. Also, as former IPs, they were very good at recognizing their own flying mistakes, analyzing them, and correcting them without much help from me--they were extremely easy to teach. Finally, there just seems to be something about flying gliders that gives pilots more air sense, which I can't explain. Perhaps it's the purest form of flying, without a lot of bells and whistles to help. I don't think it is a coincidence that the top 4 grads in my UPT class were all Soaring IPs from the Academy. All the other Academy programs listed are great, including the Flying team and Aero Club, but if your son can get into the Soaring IP program (it's very competitive--I tried and didn't make it), he should have an advantage at SUPT.
However, after serving 21 years and flying with 100's of pilots and WSOs during my career, I can't ever recall caring much about their commissioning source. It's all up to the individual. Advise your son to keep a good attitude and don't fall into the tempting trap of becoming bitter and cynical while at the Academy. The best friends I still have from the Zoo are the ones who made it fun.
Cheers
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