Again, nice try. Two entirely different airplanes. Make very small changes, such as small holes or positioning of baffles, or sizes or shapes of inlets, you have completely changed the thermodynamic cooling process of the engine, and you can make zero comparisons between the two...mount even identical engines (these are not, despite what you may think) on two different airplanes, swinging different propellers, at different speeds under different conditions in different cowlings with different baffles with different inlets, different inductions, different cowl openings...you have different engines and most certainly you do have apples to oranges comparisons.
Same spark plugs and timing? Same cooling inlet area, outlet area, and shape? Same baffling, same fuel flow, same airflow? No.
Moreover, operating at 30" isn't much of a boosted pressure...certainly not enough to cause excess wear and damage. Think about it...the airplane at sea level when normally aspirated runs at that value, paricularly with ram rise in flight. That's not highly turbocharged, that's turbonormalized...and yes, there is a difference. You're boosting to sea level pressure only...no different than what the normaly aspirated airpalne is capable of seeing. Blowby isn't increased, nor is it really an issue. I believe you mentioned darkening of the oil before, which is a ridiculous measure by which to assess wear in an engine...color is irrelevant and meaningless. You appear to believe this is a result of blowby and evidence that one engine is experiencing more wear, which puts your observations squarely in the realm of those of a housewife understanding her car. You can do better than that.
During a standard compression check I flow 80 psi or greater to the cylinder, and some of it may or may not leak past the valves or the piston. An engine close to TBO may have nearly perfect compression, or it may not. TBO is a reference number, and other than some legal implications, it's largely imaginary. Further, an overhaul may be nothing more than verifying that parts are within tolerance and putting them back...laying some lack of creditiblity to the idea that engines wear out at TBO...TBO doesn't mean much, and overhaul means even less.
W(h)eather you believe it or not, you have two different engines there, in two different aircraft, under two different circumstances and two different operating parameters. Apples to oranges. Examine two identical 402's, operating one at the lower RPM and manifold pressuree setting, and the other at the higher power setting, and if operated properly, you won't see much difference, if any. Especially at those minimal power settings.
Of course, when you're running 30 inches, you're running the same induction pressure as you get with the normally aspirated engine at sea level, when the normally aspirated engine is SHUT OFF...that's barometric pressure, and that's what your manifold pressure gauge will read when the airplane isn't even running...think about it. What you have are thermal differences which are not a consequence of the manifold pressure, but the combustion process and your mixture and power settings, being operated by different pilots at different times.
I ran a fleet of nearly 30 airplanes that all had the 0-520's, some turbocharged, some not. Most everything made it through TBO without worries, and most could have gone far beyond, very few problems, because we looked after them. They were regularly used, regularly inspected, some coming in for 100 hours two times a month. When I flew the boosted airplanes, I seldom used much boost because I didn't need it, but operationally, we had better value with the normally aspirated because they weighed less and were a little less complex and did the same job.
When you shut down your turbocharged models, are you running them for five minutes to cool the turbo and help eliminate coking in the turbo bearings? your black oil is the result of residual oil in the case following a change, and thermal differrences. Blowby does contribute to darkening of oil, but may be considered inconsequential, becuase to some degree you're always getting it, and if it's enought to be causing breakdown of the oil, you're already low enough on your compressions (and cylinder pressure isn't the cause) that you need to be doing something about it. Regular oil changes are the order of the day. If you're not operating the engine properly, you're going to see more wear. Adequate warm up and cooling periods, as well as preoiling, will make a lot of those problems and the wear you're seeing go away.
As far as running at 30" being the cause of excessive wear...it's good for a laugh, but not very realistic.
How do you suppose we could run 45" or more inches of manifold pressure and still have engines left? How do you suppose the normally aspirated engines run all day long at the same 30" hg. of turbonormalized induction pressure as your 402, without a hiccup? Truth is that you're not providing anything to that engine that it doesn't see sitting on the ramp cold and quiet...other than heat and pilot abuse.
Again, nice try.