The Mexican overnights are O.K. One of the great things about XJT is the variety of flying. A review of my logbooks shows the last 30 days overnights are:
Morelia MX
Los Angeles (Two days in a row, long, and not red eye)
Wichita
Sarasota
Boise
Quebec City (Long)
Knoxville
Cincinnati
Boise
Dallas Fort Worth
Pittsburgh
Torreon MX
Destination wise, here's the last 30 days:
Amarillo
Montrose
Dallas
Oklahoma City
Pensacola
Manchester
Corpus Christi
With of course;
Houston
Newark
Cleveland
The reserve system tends to work pretty well. I was never abused. (Keep in mind I bring the perspective of a pilot who was 60 minutes to gear in the well, anywhere in the world...) I have a buddy who is more than senior enough to hold a line, but continues to bid reserve so he can be around the house as much as possible. He's happy with the ability to control his life somewhat. Open time for FO's is pretty good, I trade away my less interesting trips for destinations I enjoy with late shows and early returns on the last day.
My wife works, so I'm pretty much "Mr. FRI,SAT,SUN,MON" to help her out with the kids and free up her week for when she needs to travel. I could probably hold weekends off soon, but again, it's nice to be abole to use the system to do what you need it to. (My old charter buds wouldn't believe how much control even a little bit of seniority gives you in a scheduled operation.)