Ordinary CFIs v. Great CFIs
BoDEAN said:
What makes a CFI better than the average CFI out there?
I think I can boil it down into a few words: Showing That You Care.
My flight instructor told me when I first started flying that the instructor-student relationship is an intense one-on-one relationship. If you think about it from a student's perspective, you are paying someone to tell you how bad you are. Think about it. Along with delivering praise to your students, you are delivering major amounts of criticism, and not many people handle criticism well. Sometimes, you have to be blunt to make your point. But if you establish early in the relationship that you care about your students, they will accept criticism in the spirit that it is intended.
In some ways, flight instructors are like doctors. Just like doctors, there are flight instructors who are brilliant and possess great amounts of knowledge. One would figure that person is the instructor to have, but such people frequently cannot relate to new learners. There are instructors who are far more average but are far more effective because they relate better to students. Perhaps it is because they really care about doing a good job.
Some students expect their instructors to be at their beckon call; if not, they feel they don't care. That is not reasonable. But if you provide reasonable availability and devote your full attention to them during their time with you, that should be satisfactory. Showing you can finish a student in course times might be ego-gratifying for you, but may not be the best thing for the student. It is far more important that you train your student well, even if if takes more time.
Finally, I second the points above about being prepared. You may be annoyed when your student arrives at the airport unprepared, but students don't like it when their instructors are not prepared. You have to set the example. In an ideal world, instructors would draw up formal lesson plans for each individual lesson. In those terms, it's not practical, but you can do it in your mind.
Once more, take an interest in your students. Show them that you care for them and you are interested in their success and not how they add time to your logbook. Hope that helps.