captainv
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it seems like we're all chasing that perfect job. One where we get paid truckloads of money, the job itself is effortless because we love it so, and we have lots of time to enjoy our spoils on our time off. (Then we just need the perfect wife, child, house, car, etc.)
i have an uncle who's a senior ATC controller. Gov't pension and benefits, huge paycheck, a couple years away from age 56 retirement. A lot of us would give our left arm for that, right? maybe not if you talked to him. his schedule's always a mess, his managers are idiots, a lot of FAA vs. union crap going on, old equipment, working too many sectors, rats running around in the facility.... never married, owns enough guns to equip a brigade, lives in AZ but is an expert divemaster. motorcycle nut. deseprate to get married before it's too late.
buddy of mine is a dentist in S. Fla. pretty close to the perfect job. less than 5 years out of school, he bought a practice (the senior dentist sets his own schedule now), the hygenists pretty much do all the messy work, his job is to come poke around for a few minutes and, more improtantly, schmooze with his patients after looking up their personal info on a cheat sheet in the file (so, how's little Bobby like 3rd grade?) huge paycheck, wife and two kids, dog, house w/ dock on intercoastal, goes boating every weekend, ridiculously bored. is this it? he asks when i call him. i can do this in my sleep! thinking about chucking it to focus on oral surgery or maybe teach at a dental school. wife not crazy about that idea.
my brother in law is the CFO for a developer. makes huge $$$, lives in a mansion. late 30s, been giving himself ulcers since high school. stays in a hotel across the street from his office during the week because the kids distract him too much at home. when he's home on weekends, he cleans the entire house. it's how he relaxes. his boss wants him to learn golf so he can help schmooze gov't officials and big clients. this terrifies him and now he can't sleep. his dad (also a workaholic) had a stroke when he was a boy, has been in a home since. his wife wants him to cut back a lot, but he's more stressed when he's not working.
basically every one i know has some variation on this theme. maybe they've got a great job, but there's always a down side. or maybe their work life is perfect, but the home life is a mess. does anyone still want to be a movies star/rock star? or just filthy rich? i've read some interesting stories about lottery winners and how their lives tanked after getting the big check.
i enjoy flying for a living. lots of pros/cons to the job, but that's every job. i could never be a doctor, or an investment banker. i wish i was home more, but the family is pretty solid otherwise. if my airline tanks, i'd probably find something else to do, but i don't spend every day worrying about it. i followed my passion, and it's the passion that helps me get through the rough patches....
i have an uncle who's a senior ATC controller. Gov't pension and benefits, huge paycheck, a couple years away from age 56 retirement. A lot of us would give our left arm for that, right? maybe not if you talked to him. his schedule's always a mess, his managers are idiots, a lot of FAA vs. union crap going on, old equipment, working too many sectors, rats running around in the facility.... never married, owns enough guns to equip a brigade, lives in AZ but is an expert divemaster. motorcycle nut. deseprate to get married before it's too late.
buddy of mine is a dentist in S. Fla. pretty close to the perfect job. less than 5 years out of school, he bought a practice (the senior dentist sets his own schedule now), the hygenists pretty much do all the messy work, his job is to come poke around for a few minutes and, more improtantly, schmooze with his patients after looking up their personal info on a cheat sheet in the file (so, how's little Bobby like 3rd grade?) huge paycheck, wife and two kids, dog, house w/ dock on intercoastal, goes boating every weekend, ridiculously bored. is this it? he asks when i call him. i can do this in my sleep! thinking about chucking it to focus on oral surgery or maybe teach at a dental school. wife not crazy about that idea.
my brother in law is the CFO for a developer. makes huge $$$, lives in a mansion. late 30s, been giving himself ulcers since high school. stays in a hotel across the street from his office during the week because the kids distract him too much at home. when he's home on weekends, he cleans the entire house. it's how he relaxes. his boss wants him to learn golf so he can help schmooze gov't officials and big clients. this terrifies him and now he can't sleep. his dad (also a workaholic) had a stroke when he was a boy, has been in a home since. his wife wants him to cut back a lot, but he's more stressed when he's not working.
basically every one i know has some variation on this theme. maybe they've got a great job, but there's always a down side. or maybe their work life is perfect, but the home life is a mess. does anyone still want to be a movies star/rock star? or just filthy rich? i've read some interesting stories about lottery winners and how their lives tanked after getting the big check.
i enjoy flying for a living. lots of pros/cons to the job, but that's every job. i could never be a doctor, or an investment banker. i wish i was home more, but the family is pretty solid otherwise. if my airline tanks, i'd probably find something else to do, but i don't spend every day worrying about it. i followed my passion, and it's the passion that helps me get through the rough patches....