regarding quality of life at USAFA...
For those who are considering a service academy vs ROTC, may I recommend the book "Absolutely American" for you. It is about West Point, so many of the specifics will be different for USAFA or USNA, but the most salient point is this: the writer worked for Rolling Stone (not exactly a military zealot), and he did research at USMA and many civillian colleges over several years, and concluded that, to his great surprise, the military academy cadets were actually the happiest group of students he found. While they were complainers par excellance, he saw them, compared to their peers elsewhere, as having the most purpose in life, the greatest sense of belonging, the fewest doubts about their future, etc.
Being in ROTC with a certainty of going into the service after graduation would duplicate some of that sense, probably, but NOTHING will duplicate the entire academy experience, but a service academy. For some people, the freedom of "going surfing before ROTC class" is a great thing; for others, perhaps not. For some people, the structure and immersion in the military will be a "drag," and others will thrive in it. It is an individual choice, and I certainly don't propose that a service academy is the right fit for everyone. To those who are making that choice, I recommend "Absolutely American," and I wish you all the best.