FlyBieWire said:
Welcome to the Club. Everybody is.
As most have posted, pitch and power both working together control both altitude and airspeed. It is not a rote "1 contols 1, and the other controls the other".
The confusion comes from the method of teaching and learning.
In the beginning of learning to fly, there is so much new knowledge to absorb so quick that we resort to a lot of "rote" learning. This is fine to begin with, but should always be later trained to a level of, at least, proficient application. The later training just never happens.
Instructors teach "pitch to the airspeed" in the beginning to develop an instinctive response to reduce angle-of-attack if angle-of-attack is approaching a stall, which we read as airspeed.
Once this knee-jerk response is developed through slow flight and stall practice, and initial approaches, the relationship of power-to-airspeed should be developed and the pilot would develop the intrinsic skill to apply either/or pitch and/or power depending on the precise moment and situation.
The problem you are experiencing in your confusion is coming from too many eons of "rote" earning. "There ain't but one way, by gawd, and that's how we're gonna do it" "My instructor told me to do it this way and I'm gonna stand by my instructor.(My Knight in Shining Armor)"
However, the knee-jerk response that you learn in the beginning is important - it becomes an automatic response that will live with you forever.
I learned, in the beginning, to pitch to the airspeed, but in my day a normal approach was power off. And, of course, when you have no power, the pitch is definitely the only control.
But, in all these years, I have discovered that a normal approach with power can be done with much more precision and control when we pitch to the altitude (point the nose at the touchdown spot) and control the speed with power. That's how I teach it now, and it works so much better for the precision visual approaches and later on for instrument approaches.
We spend most of our flying hours straight-and-level pitching to the altitude and powering to the airspeed - why change over for a normal visual or instrument approach?
If you're slow-flying the final approach, a short-field, with airspeed below Vx, then you have to pitch to the airspeed, but that's not a normal approach with excess airspeed. It's the excess airspeed built into the normal approach speed which keeps us able to safely "pitch to the altitude".
The main problem with initially learning to "pitch to the airspeed" is in the summertime with hot thermals on final approach - you'll never get down.
With each thermal that pushes the airplane up, it also increases the airspeed, so the students I see who are trained to "pitch to the speed" will *immediately* pitch up as the airspeed needle jumps up, and then, respond to the rising altitude with a throttle back, but, uh-oh, too late - we balooned too much to salvage this attempt to touch down on or within 100 feet of the intended touchdown point. Go-around.
This same situation with a student trained to *immediately* throttle back as the airspeed needle jumps up and pitch the nose down to respond to the rising altitude will have a much better chance of making the intended touch down point.
Get the point?