bart said:
You are making excuses in this statement. You either take responsibility or you don't.
There is no such thing as try.
You either do it or you don't. Trying is what losers do while losing so they can make statements about their effort and avoid responsibility for their results.
Hey, no big deal, you told a bunch of people you would pay them back and when it became inconvenient to do so, you hosed them.
At least you tried, right?
As has been said earlier, it is wrong to generalize everyones situation like this. There are different factors involved with each case. The people who go out and buy new cars every couple years and a home that is right at their limit, can be considered irresponsible and I have little sympathy for people like that.
I truly feel my case is different. Currently I have a FICO score of 760, which I believe is in the higest grouping. I have handled my debt quite responsibly. I don't even have any credit card debt, because I pay that off in full each month. My problem has arisen from educational debt.
If I am guilty of anything, it was of pursuing a dream, not of being irresponsible. In the year 2000, I had 2 choices. Use the tried and true method of reaching the flight deck, or go the more expensive flight school route, with gauranteed interviews with regional carriers. Considering the info I had at the time of making my decision, I chose the flight school route. Remember, in 2000 all industry news was good, and that is what I based my decision on. Well I graduated DAYS before 9-11. Well that was it. The school could not place the low-time pilots anymore. A year later the school talks me into their NEW program that will gaurantee me an interview with a regional that was hiring at the time. I took the chance that a worst case scenario would not happen twice to me, so I went for it! I figured I had spent so much money already, it would be foolish not to give it a try, to do otherwise would be a waste of the money I had already spent initially.
So while I'm in this NEW program, the school slams its doors shut and yet another worst case scenario occurs. The school mismanages their finances and all they have to do is declare bankruptcy on their company and they get away scott free. Their personal finances will be completely protected and they can immediately start their pathetic lives again, which they have already done. The poor students that gave everything they had and then some, are facing having their lives stigmatized by a bankruptcy and being accused of not taking resposibility for themselves...sad I say.
Whats also sad is that unlike a house or car, which you can sell and use the proceeds to help pay off your debt, education is an intangible that carries no monetary value. I purchased an education that was to land me a job that would allow me to pay off the debt. I know, I know, you're not going to be able to pay off much debt as an FO at a regional, but the upgrades times were running at 2 years or so at many regionals and less at some, and Captains pay is sufficient at most regionals and would have allowed me to get out of my debt with ease.
I just wanted to describe my situation, because some seem to think that they could never have financial problems. Worst case scenarios DO happen to people, and in my case it happened 2x.
I appreciate the comments, and welcome more.