As for the parents 'dragging' their kids around everywhere.. I feel pity for those kids who have not seen anything outside of 25 miles around their town. To those kids, it's a big deal to travel somewhere, impossible to pull up roots and move. What shallow lives they lead!
My parents went were the work was. They didn't sit at home on welfare feeling sorry for themselves. At times, Dad had to live away from home for weeks at a time, the company provided housing for employees only. So Mom would haul two toddlers (3 & 5) several hundred miles to Dad's jobsite for a weekend. Or Dad would drive the roundtrip on the weekend. The courage of both and the conviction of their love is to be respected.
We also took advantage of the local sights. Dad loves history and passed it on to us. So we got to walk on many of the Great American Battlefields, ponder the crack in the Liberty Bell, stand in 4 States at the same time, stare at Mt. Rushmore, walk through the Hoover Dam and the Carlsbad Caverns, and oogle the Air and Space Museum. We discovered that the worst of the environmentalist tree huggers are completely ill informed, by touring Yellowstone after the fires. We found that the Denver Mint and Hershey do not give out free samples at the end of their tour, but, Mead Paper does. We found big trees in California, a big smelly lake in Utah, and a big ditch in Arizona. We smelled the cherry three blossoms in D.C. and saw the view from the head of the Statue of Liberty. We also got lost on Pennslyvania Avenue, several times (Dad, isn't the White House supposed to be on YOUR side of the car?).
As us kids grew older, we sometimes had a say in the moving decision. Did we want to live in Nevada or Colorado? (Our response: "who cares, get us out of West, my GAWD!, Virginia!")
Nah, if a kid's parents care enough to stay working, the kids typically don't end up as welfare sl*ts. Tattoos go with the industry, military and construction. I haven't figured out the male slave markings yet (the 'gold' earring). There will always be the exception -- the kid that turns down the wrong path -- no matter what the parents do.
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Jedi Nein