Take a good look at Express Jet. We make over 100 million a year in operating profit, about a 2-year upgrade, (maybe) and if you end up here as a career, the culture is outstanding and the flying is superb.
I'll second what others have said about attempting to keep a hand in the military side of things. In this industry, it is critical that you have either a second skillset or another flying job. In the case of a reserve or guard unit, you're protected in the event the airlines tank again, and if they don't you're building PIC time.
Drop me a line if you have any XJT questions. We have all kinds of ex-mil here, from E-6 NFO's to retired 0-6 Phantom dudes E-3 pilots & goats, airborne rangers, navy helo guys, retired T-6 IP's, Army tank commanders, you name it.
We fly from as far south as Acupulco, to Los Angeles, to Boise, to Hallifax to Bermuda with a lot of stuff in between. The Embraear is an easy, fun jet to fly.
Drop me a line if I can help you out at all.