2 ways to join
There is two main ways of becoming a pilot with the military. 1. Your son joins the acadamy of his choice. More likely the one that chooses him. Then he will go to a military school for 4 years and most likely, if he's qualified will go onto flight school if they have openings. 2. He can do what the other guy said and join a university that offers ROTC for the branch of service he is trying to get into. First off he has to make up his mind on which branch he wants to serve. If you love him, you will guide him towards the Air Force. (That was suppose to be funny.) Honestly though, I did four years active duty, and now I'm trying to become an officer in the guard. My advice comes from someone who has struggled to make connections. I have done very well so far, but it just seems like if you don't go down one of the avenues I mentioned, you will not have as many people working on your side. Please understand! If he deals with ROTC he will have his whole induction into the military spoon fed to him. Now I'm sure I'm going to here a lot of bad comments from ROTC people, but that's the way it is. I'm not mad about it, I'm jealous! He will have to work very hard in college and stay out of trouble, but at least there will be someone there guiding him along. It is much more competitive to go to school on your own with no involvement with the military, and then decide you want to fly for them. I hope this helps. I know it would have helped me 6 years ago.