The other aspect of this problem is .....................timing.
(Ba dum dum!)
But seriously folks....
One of the most sticky problems for a student pilot is determining when to flare. Right now, you are in the "too late" camp, where the nosewheel hits the pavement. Not a good thing.
Then, there is the "too soon" group. Flare too soon and stall a couple (hopefully no higher) feet above the runway. A good way to damage gear and airplane.
Yes, by all means move your vision aim to a point about halfway to 3/4 down the runway on a typical 3,000 foot field during the flare.
After turning from base to final, you should have an aim point both on the runway and on your windshield, and once proper pitch is established for your speed and configuration those two points should line up with your eyes. Make small changes in order to keep these points aligned. This is a stabilized approach. I start thinking about the flare at about ten feet above the runway, but I don't go off half cocked. I wait until about five feet and slowly (not too slowly!) raise the nose as I pull the power slowly to idle. If the nose starts to sink, don't let it. The steadily decreasing airspeed will mean that you will need more and more up elevator to keep the nose up. While you are looking down the runway and running out of elevator you should feel the mains touching down. Once both main wheels are on the ground, SLOWLY lower the nose from its current position of about ten inches off the runway to a smooth touchdown.
Caution. Raising the nose too quickly in the flare can cause a banging of the tail. That little metal ring costs a bunch to replace if you shear it off. I know someone that paid for this ring in addition to his rental charges that week. Taking the tail apart to check for damage and to install a new ring was not cheap.