TonyC
Frederick's Happy Face
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Robert,
Words are so inadequate at a time like this. We are saddened by your loss, and honored that you'd share your memories of your father with us. Many of us, myself included, have experienced the loss of our father and can empathize to a degree. However, nobody can truly know how profoundly it's hurting you right now.
You'll no doubt hear many cliches in the days, weeks, and months to come. They won't help, but don't get angry at the kind-hearted persons that deliver them. Rarely do people really know what the right thing to say is. I've felt the hurt, and I still don't know the "right thing" to say. Time does NOT heal all wounds - - but the scars become less noticable and the pain fades. Whatever you do, don't let the fond memories fade.
Never be afraid to talk.
Our most sincere condolences.
Tony
Words are so inadequate at a time like this. We are saddened by your loss, and honored that you'd share your memories of your father with us. Many of us, myself included, have experienced the loss of our father and can empathize to a degree. However, nobody can truly know how profoundly it's hurting you right now.
You'll no doubt hear many cliches in the days, weeks, and months to come. They won't help, but don't get angry at the kind-hearted persons that deliver them. Rarely do people really know what the right thing to say is. I've felt the hurt, and I still don't know the "right thing" to say. Time does NOT heal all wounds - - but the scars become less noticable and the pain fades. Whatever you do, don't let the fond memories fade.
Never be afraid to talk.
Our most sincere condolences.
Tony