Military v. Civilian
I agree with flyboy757 that colleges are a good way to go. But, you have a degree and unless you are hell-bent on earning a B.S. in Aero Science you don't need another degree.
Plenty of good civilian sources of flight training. Choosing the best one for you takes some thought and reflection. I like a Part 141 flight school because the training is standardized and consistent, and going to a school imposes a certain measure of beneficial discipline. Many people suggest FBOs, but at many of them flight training is an afterthought. They may put fuel sales, charters and maintenance ahead of flight training, meaning you might arrive for a lesson to learn that your instructor went off on a trip with no one to cover for him. Now, if the FBO includes a school, that might be a different matter.
Of course, military takes the best candidates available. Training is second to none and you get great opportunities to fly advanced turbine aircraft, which will help you come separation time. But, it
is the military. You have a time commitment to fulfill. You have to meet standards and there are few second chances. It's no skin of the military's nose if it washes you out because you are not a "customer." Moreover, military life isn't for everyone.
On the east coast, you can check out FlightSafety in Vero,
www.flightsafetyacademy.com , Comair,
www.comairacademy.com , Pan Am,
www.panamacademy.com , or Airline Transport Professionals,
http://www.allatps.com . All are in Florida. This list,
http://www.narrows.com/aviation/fltschools.htm , has a ton of schools all over the country.
Good luck with your choice.