Labbats,
Unlike avbug I have found that non airline type simulators poorly mirror the feel of the actual aircraft. Control pressures are completely different in roll, pitch and bank. I can remember being straight and level and glancing at the PM as he was tuning something and in about five seconds I was in a 20 degree bank. Sims in this category should be considered procedural trainers. You go to the sim to get your procedures down. It is a box, after all and will not give you the seat of the pants feel you have in the aircraft. Most of the pressures are lighter and there in lies the problem. I, and many others, have commented that flying the sim feels like balancing the aircraft on a pencil head.
Think the major's sims are like this? Hell no! They mirror almost to the tee the exact control pressures that they will feel in the aircaft. It is a matter of money. Alll of these sims cost way more than the actual aircraft, to begin with.
We used to use the term "cross-check", now it is "scan" to keep the greasy side down. This scan has to be more intense in the sim. I have always found the aircraft much easier to fly than the sim...which is a good thing, in the end.
Good luck with your training!