I know there is a husband/wife that are in the falcon program. The husband is a captain and the wife is an fa. In fact, I was in new orleans a few tours ago and they were crewed together. I do not know anything about fa pay/lifestyle however.
If I knew any of the fa's I would be glad to put you in contact with one of them, but I do not drive an aircraft with an fa. If you do not know anyone at eja who can put you in contact with one of our fa's, give the main office a call and ask to speak with the chief flight attendant. If she does not answer, leave a voice mail. If she does not call back, call back yourself.