Did I miss something?
let me start my saying that I'm really NOT trying to pick a fight. Really.

Now I will say what I have to say - just 'cause it's me. You're standing at the altar waiting for your jilting bride to show up!
Why
aren't you trying to get on at UPS or FedEx? They're both profitable and that's not likely to change. They're both gonna be around for the full term of your 25-32 year timeframe, and BOTH will probably pay you more in salary, benefits and retirement than DAL will - given what their current situation is. I know the current negotiations at UPS will likely yield 10 year Captain pay well in excess of $200K/year.
Don't wanna fly at night, right? The night flying thing is a myth that's rapidly falling by the wayside for two reasons. First, the cargo haulers are having to include a geat deal more day flying in order to meet the rigorous demands of next day and second day air shipment schedules. UPS is running a shade over 40% day flying right now and that's likely to improve. FedEx is the same way.
Second, the pax haulers are not all day flying anyway. If you look at identical, or at least similar mission long haul aircraft, what you'll see is that some or all of a great many overseas flights are operated at night, or at least on the wrong side of some clock somewhere - just like the freight guys.
Besides, do you really believe, given the current pax carrier organizational/financial realignment, DAL, or any other major carrier will match parity with, or ever catch the freight guys' $ after it's all said and done? I'm not a bettin' man but if I were I'd bet that it takes a pretty big huka in front of you to see
that in the tea leaves.
I'll say what I've always said about freight: People may not be able to afford to fly to see Aunt Martha for Christmas. Or, they might be too afraid to fly to see her, but they
WILL continue to send her a package with her present in it EVERY year.
I guess loyalty is a powerful thing indeed. Remember, you won't be offered a job that you didn't apply for and as you well know by now, seniority is EVERYTHING, and seniority is COMPLETELY dependent on timing. Waiting around doesn't help.
Or, put another way won't you be kicking yourself if, in five years, you're a) not recalled yet and, b) not going to be because DAL downsized by 50% in order to remain viable as a long-haul passenger airline exclusively.
Choices, choices, choices. I hope everyone's work out well, I really do! Not all of 'em are easy though and that's a bit of pain sometimes.
TIS