I'll start with the end, and save anybody that wants it the trouble of reading the WHOLE thing
My basic philosophy is that you should be equally proficient and comfortable with both types of landings in light taildraggers. Whichever you prefer, there will be times when you find that the other is more appropriate, and when it is, you NEED to be able to do it well.
Now, on to the "optional reading" part...
My personal preference is for wheel landings. First, the tailwheel is generally the weak link in the landing gear. Personally, I've had every bolt on a tailwheel break at some time or other (I replace them all on my Maule every 5 years).
I've had to land without a tailwheel 3 times (hence my belief that it's the weak link in the landing gear). If you're going to do a bouncy, not-so-proficient wheel landing under these circumstances, you're probably better off to 3 point it and drag the tail, rather than give it several sharp hits on the ground, IMO. You would, as I stated above, NEED to be able to do a good wheel landing here.
The last tailwheel I had to buy (if any of you guys have a farm in mid-Kansas and see a Scott 3200 laying on the ground, it's probably mine) cost $850. They've gone up since then. I've never had to buy a main gear leg, and the only problems I know of there were due to improper maintenance.
I can land shorter in a wheel landing than I can with a 3-pointer in my Maule...just because it's a wheel landing, doesn't mean it has to be FAST. I do 'em tail-low, and when I raise the tail, I can get better braking action on my grass strip (translated: the wheels don't lock up and skid when I apply the slightest amount of brakes like they do 3-point). Obviously, care needs to be taken, but it can be done safely.
I can land shorter over an obstacle in a wheel landing than I can 3-point in my Maule...I use a high sink rate, which takes a fair amount of energy to arrest. Energy is either speed or power, and I prefer not to require large amounts of instantaneous power to avoid a hard impact. To make a 3-point landing, the extra speed results in extended float, and proper speed results in a shallower descent angle past the obstacle. Either of which has me touching down beyond where I get stopped with the wheel-landing.
Having said all that, there are times, circumstances, and airplanes for which a 3-pointer is simply RIGHT. It looks good, it feels good, it is good. So, back to the original statement...be proficient and comfortable with both.
Fly safe!
David