Hi UA! Yes, you can do whatever you want in life! There are so many options today for young adults. Set goals ON PAPER, and go from there.
Be in touch with as many people who will support you and your efforts, and stay away from Negative people. Read as many books as you can on People ( real life stories) of those who started at the bottom and made it to the top.
There are so many options in aviation, Sales. Selling and learning about an aircraft can lead to high income commissions.
Flight lessons, can be rewarding as pleasure but can lead to more serious things in life.
Working for a charter company as a broker? Bluestar Jets? This job may pay off if sellling for customers. I hate to say this but do not believe that you are "poor", Money comes from hard work, and money is nothing but a tool.
Don't feel bad that you live at home, this may be a secure place for you and living with supportive parents helps. We all work Ua, 40 hours a week is normal, I started my 40 hour week the day I graduated from High School, and have been working ever since 24 years later.
Yes, you can do it! There are so many options, the key is to get focused and write down, your goals. Example, I want to fly 10 hours this month.
Or the military is a good option too, I just met a Jarhead for the first time in my life at my part time job!
Either way, do not let anyone steer you from doing what you want, money doesn't always drive people, the passion does!